I help people better understand themselves and their relationships, build self-trust, and develop greater agency in how they connect with others.

(available in person in NYC, virtually in California, Florida, Upstate NY, and Long Island)

This might be the turning point.

You want to feel better about yourself and your relationships.

You want to understand why things are the way they are.

Why you keep finding yourself in the same situations, and whether something could be different.

You want to feel more connected, more capable of handling life's challenges, and less stuck in patterns that keep repeating.

You want something to change.

Many People I Work With

Want deep connection with others.

Want to build the kind of romantic relationship they’ve been hoping for.

Feel successful in their career but are struggling with their personal life.

Feel anxious and stuck.

They thought life would look different than it does right now.

Here, we can talk openly about dating, loneliness, relationships, sex, patterns that aren’t working, and how you feel about yourself. I am passionate about creating a space for honest, thoughtful conversation where you can be brave and explore what feels difficult, gain understanding, challenge old patterns, and build self-acceptance, self trust, and courage to make different choices.

Special Expertise in Sexual Health

I love helping people strengthen their sense of self, live more authentically and effectively, and build more satisfying connections in their lives. I also have special expertise supporting people navigating sexual health concerns, including a genital herpes diagnosis.

I’m Melissa

I provide a warm, compassionate space for individuals who are ready for change and want to make sense of these hard moments, especially when they’re tied to relationships, sexuality, and self-esteem.

In-Person Therapy in NYC and Virtual in CA, FL, Upstate NY & Long Island

If you're feeling anxious or unsure about what to do next, therapy can help. I’d love to support you. I offer a free, 15-minute phone consultation to see if we’re a good fit.

Contact me here to schedule a time to speak. You deserve a place to work through what you’re carrying and find a way to forward.

COUNSELING SERVICES - WHO I HELP

You may look like you’re holding it all together — but inside, you feel anxious, stuck, or uncertain about how to move forward. Maybe you're tired of overthinking, tired of performing, tired of feeling like it’s all on you. In therapy, we’ll create space for you—your real feelings and your real thoughts and worries about what is going on. Together, we can explore the deeper patterns that affect your self-worth, relationships, sexuality, and confidence — and help you reconnect with or define your values so you can move forward with more clarity, agency, and trust in yourself.

A herpes diagnosis can feel isolating, overwhelming, and disorienting. But it doesn't have to define you. I offer a compassionate space to process the shock, shame, and confusion — and to help you reconnect with your sense of self, sexuality, and self-worth. Whether this is all new or something you’ve been quietly carrying for years, you don’t have to face it alone.

Learn more about counseling for women with herpes, counseling for men with herpes, or the therapy group for women with herpes.

Sexuality is deeply personal — and often layered with thoughts, feelings, fears, and desires we’ve never spoken aloud. You may be struggling with low desire, pain during sex, difficulty achieving orgasm, performance anxiety, or changes related to perimenopause or menopause. You may simply want to understand yourself more fully. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore these concerns at your own pace — wherever you are in your journey.

It is time to call and get help. You’ve waited long enough.